Sexlessness & Intimacy Issues

I once asked a relationship therapist about the root causes of the divorces he saw and how many of these men had known about the issues in their relationship early on.

 He told me the number was 100%. 

It isn't that you don't know where the pain is, it's that you don't understand the invisible processes creating it. It is this blindness that isolate us in cycles of fear, avoidance and frustration and keeps us from finding the closeness we need. In the midst of emotional distance or the agony of a sexless relationship, men come to us to find empathy, healing and a path to the closeness they desire.

Sexless relationships, low desire, performance anxiety, and emotional disconnect are issues many men face but rarely talk about. At The NorCal Center for Men, we offer a safe, confidential space to explore these concerns without shame. Whether you’re single, in a long-term relationship, or feeling isolated, our therapy focuses on reconnecting you with your physical and emotional self.

We work with men throughout Sacramento, the San Francisco Bay Area, and Northern California who want more from their intimate lives—more connection, confidence, and clarity. Together, we explore the root causes of intimacy issues and build tools to create more fulfilling, honest relationships with yourself and others.